40多岁未结婚的俞飞鸿 究竟有什么错？(3)

和许多网友一样，我听到这些愚蠢的问题，也很生气。为什么俞飞鸿要忍受他的无礼质问，她甚至可以站起来离开采访演播室?

[本文来自：www.11jj.com]

From my perspective, the actress has a more successful career, more wealth, more beauty and more talent than most Chinese women at her age. However, even as successful as she is, she must bear devaluation and discrimination just for being unmarried.

[转载出处：www.11jj.com]

我觉得，俞飞鸿比跟她同龄的大多数中国女性都更为成功，更富有，更美丽，更有才华。但是，即便如此，她也得忍受仅仅因为未婚而带来的歧视。

In real life, for ordinary working-class people like me and you, social pressure toward unmarried middle-aged Chinese women is even more intense.

其实在现实生活中，对于普通工薪阶层的未婚中年女性来说，她们受到的社会压力甚至更大。

As a newspaper reporter, one of my interviewees, a beautiful and capable single Chinese lady in her late-30s, said her own relatives have drummed up rumors about her personal life in Shanghai, as they fail to understand why she is still unmarried.

我是一名新闻记者，而在我的采访对象中，其中有一位30多岁长得很美并且很有能力的上海女性，她说自己的亲戚甚至搞了一些关于她个人生活的谣言出来，只因为他们不明白她为什么至今不结婚。

"They thought I had secret lovers with some successful men, that this was the only possible reason why I am single at my age," she told me.

她告诉我说:“他们觉得我和一些成功男士有不可公开的秘密关系，只有这个原因可以说明为什么我在这个年纪还单着身。”